Yesterday was not a holiday and I was actually feeling pretty decent so off we went to Walmart for some post Christmas clearance. Seems we were not the only ones who had the same idea. Normally this is when I buy cards and treat bags as well as a few baking supplies and small gifts for birthdays and such. There, now you all know my secret. Extra frugal tip: use a gift card that was gifted to you and then you can get a years worth of items for nothing! Hey, when you live on a budget you gotta pull every punch sometimes. Anyhow, I was cruising along and I made 2 purchases that kinda made me want to turn back time. I bought my son a shaving kit….and showed him how to use it. That peach fuzz kept getting fuller as the days went by. You are all welcome. Secondly, I bought my youngest a bath set with deodorant. Yes, she is little but she is mighty….mighty stinky! So I’m reaching new mommy milestones every day as my kids grow ever close to the adults they were meant to be. Well, this house has fresh faced and clean smelling kids in it and I am forever grateful to be called their mother. Now if they would just quit wasting all the dish soap!
Extra little fun side note: those charcoal sheet masks are EXCELLENT for scaring your kids!
Sunday afternoon my youngest was begging me to make lip balm with her. If you know our Sunday schedule then you probably also know that I was much more inclined to take a nap than craft. She had been eye balling the lip balm kits at Walmart for a while. (Don’t you just love how they put all those things down the CENTER aisle? ) I refuse to buy her the kit as I already have the ingredients at home. I just lacked the motivation! She was undeterred and insisted on knowing my recipe. I mumbled off the basic ingredients and general process – double boiler is a must! I was amused to see her jotting down notes in her mini notebook. How cute.
Next day… I come in from a walk and she presents me with my very own tube of her homemade chapstick. Yes, I’m a proud mommy! She made 6 total and they are pretty good quality too. That shea butter really helps moisturize.
We (the hubs and I) have been a part of the bus ministry in our church for a few years now. It is a labor of love. There have been times when I felt it was a waste of gas and times when I felt I was winning the world.
Anyhow, a couple of Sundays ago we had a fun surprise planned and here’s what it looks like:
I took this picture one day in early spring. It was a quick kid photo shoot so I could update our pictures. Often we fail to get our own family pictures done (yes, my husband is a photographer) so I fill in the blanks with my own shots.
As I go back through photos this one always stands out to me. My little girl peeks out at me and I see the woman she will become. It is both a proud and frightening moment frozen in time. If I can do anything good for this gift of a child I hope to give her what I did not have. I pray she is confident in herself and wise in her choices and that she puts God at the center of her life.
I know the time will come soon enough when the things I have taught her will have to stand on their own. She will decide the direction of her life. But for now I hope that the time I have with her will stand still just a little bit longer.
I am a teacher. I have a small first grade class. They are few in number but have plenty of personality. I find myself thinking of all the kids that have come through my classroom. My son was in my very first preschool class when he was 4. He’s 15 now so I’ve seen plenty of kids come and go during that time.
For most of my students I am the rule keeper, to motivator and cheerleader. I am the one who presents the task and guides them through the process. To some I am a constant and a routine that they take comfort in. To others I am the smile they crave and the only “good job” they will hear that day. I don’t take it lightly- although I have relaxed significantly as time wears on and I lose the spunk I once had.
It is an important job. We teachers shape the future. The kindness we give and the effort we put forth can make their day and influence their lives.
I’m not tooting my own horn- so often I feel as if I should be doing something more productive with my time. I just get a bit contemplative when I consider the fact that to one child I might be the difference maker. That is what keeps me going.
So my 12 y.o. daughter has been wanting her own room for a while. We did have a room available but the flooring was questionable. There were some soft spots so we put off housing a kid up there until we were sure it wouldn’t fall through. Well, its holding strong and her desire for a bit of independence is ever so much stronger. Let the switch begin!
In unearthing some of the things found stored up there I came across a short story I had written for my kids and my nieces and nephews. I am the story-teller. The calmer of fussy toddlers and the one given the task of regaling everyone under the age of eight at family gatherings. It’s my gift to the world, lol.
Without further ado, I give you a tale of complete and utter nonsense.
THE SILLYS OF TOWNSVILLE
Once upon a time there was a family of Sillys. Mr. Silly, Mrs.Silly, Sister Silly, Brother Silly and Baby Silly. As you can imagine they were quite a silly bunch!
For breakfast the Sillys always ate a sweet dessert followed by a steak diner. That way nobody was late to the table. For lunch they invited all of their neighbors over for sandwiches on the rooftop. That’s because, as you may know, the every best sunshine is to be had at noon and the Sillys had no intention of missing it. Dinner was always enjoyed while sitting snuggly around the fire. Even the Sillys didn’t know why it had to be so but Mr. Silly supposed it was the proper thing for a Silly family to do.
If you think the Sillys were strange about meals, you should see their home. Wonderfully wacky and quite unique, it sat high up on a hilltop with a crooked stove-pipe two stories tall. (the stove pipe, not the house) Even the windows were placed so as to appear like a smiling jack-o-lantern face to those who may have passed by at night.
In spite of, or maybe because of all their silliness the Silly family was instantly loveable. They welcomed anyone into their wild little home and always had loads of fun. Perhaps that is why the Silly house always had company. Even stray cats and dogs made their way to the Silly household. Sister Silly loved to leave trails of food for all kinds of creatures and as sure as cornflowers are blue, critters would find the Silly house by way of the treats.
One dark and dreary afternoon the lights flickered once, twice and then the power went out. Mrs. Silly was just stoking the fire so she hadn’t noticed the lights go out. The two Silly children were walking home from school and Baby Silly was napping. The whole town was without power of lights. As you already know, the Sillys never used lights for the evening anyhow. They were always huddled by the fire at that time of day.
This particular day the pound was entirely overcrowded with stray animals. Dogs, cats, iguanas, rabbits, guinea pigs and even a small donkey. The power flickered once, then twice then darkness fell in the animal shelter. (which really resembled a small zoo) The locks, being electric, all gave a chorus of clicks and quick as lightning fur, feathers, yips, yowls (and a small hee-haw) erupted from the pound. Before you could say ‘shivering polecats!’ all those critters flew the coop!
The animals weren’t the only thing running amuck. The local grocery store was having it’s fair share of troubles. Mr. Arugula had been managing the Veggie Emporium for twenty years and had never seen anything like it. “Sizzling sour kraut!” he cried, as a store full of customers bumbled around like a food filled game of blind man’s bluff. Only they weren’t playing and they weren’t bluffing! They were crashing carts into one another and knocking over towers of oranges and boxed crackers in the pitch black store.
After forty seven and a half nerve damaging minutes Mr. Arugula had managed to maneuver each customer out the door into the somewhat dim (and quickly darkening) evening. Disgruntled and ungroceried they returned to their poorly lit homes to dine on leftover meatloaf and canned beets.
With the Veggie Emporium now empty Mr. Arugula began to take stock. He stared ruefully at the freezer section where the raspberry ripple ice cream had melted into an elegant pink puddle and blended with the butterscotch truffle supreme on the floor. It would have made a lovely paint color but under the circumstances he was not impressed.
The bakery down the road, Bozo Breads, wasn’t doing much better. The power had gone out right in the middle of baking the mayor’s birthday cake. I was to be the center piece for the grand celebration as well as a feast for the opening of a new aquatic center.
Actually, the celebration was meant for the grand opening for The House of Bellyflops but the mayor was never one to let the spotlight drift too far and claimed that it was “An honor to share my special day with the House of Flops grand opening!”
Now the cake could not be finished. The inside of the cake ran like lava while the outside was just beginning to firm up like a lovely golden sponge. ‘”Fiddle sticks and funnel cakes!” cried the baker Mr. Baklava. “The celebration is tomorrow! Whatever can I do?” Dismayed and disheartened he threw down his baker’s hat in disgust.
Thinking a bit of fresh air would do him some good he stepped out onto the sidewalk, the bell over the bakery door ringing behind him. I sure wish something would ring a bell he thought as he pondered over his dilemma. Not seeing the light, Mr. Baklava walked blindly along hoping a bright idea would dawn on him.
Slowly, the downtown area began to fill with shopkeepers closing down for the day. The butcher, fondly nicknamed ‘Captain Cleaver’ had to jumpstart his emergency generator to keep the meat in the cooler from spoiling at The Meatery. The air was thick with a dense fog and their was a gloomy overcast in the night sky. The generator added an eerie buzz in the background.
All seemed desperately unhappy. All that is, except the Silly children as they skipped up the walk into the front room. Mrs. Silly had the fireplace blazing merrily by then and had a bowl of hotdogs to roast for dinner. Baby Silly with downy brown hair looked like a little bird perched merrily in his high chair. “Gaa!” He exclaimed, happily tossing Cheerios into the air.
As the Sillys sat down to roast weenies for their supper, there was a knock at the door. The baker, Mr. Baklava, stood on the front step looking a bit rumpled a forlorn. Mr. Silly kindly welcomed him in for a s’more and the baker told his tale of woe.
“No problem!” exclaimed Mr. Silly. “We will just create a new dessert! A fantastic, unbelievable and worthy of the biggest belly flop dessert!” As Daddy Silly and Mr. Baklava sketched out a plan there came a scurrying, scuffing and pawing from outside.
Sister peeped out the window to find that most of the animals from the pound had indeed found a safe home on the Silly’s front porch. The Silly children gathered the leftover hotdogs (and some oatmeal and lettuce) and went outside to feed the wandering critters. Mrs. Silly called the pound and left a message to let Mrs. Woofmier know the animals were safe with the Sillys until the power outage was over.
Shortly after, there was another knock at the door. It was Mr. Arugula from the VeggieEmporium. He was headed home but stopped by to say hello to Mr. Silly. He too began to share his troubles. Soon, Mr. Silly, Mr. Baklava and Mr. Arugula locked themselves in the kitchen as “Operation Super Dessert” really began to take off.
In the morning, the sun shone brightly over the town. Mr. Silly shone twice as bright for he had hatched a brilliant plan for the celebration of the century! The Sillys quickly got ready and hopped into the car. They drove downtown zippity quick and parked under the statue of Townsville’s founding father; the great and honorable Mr. Good Founder.
Mr. Baklava hurriedly waved Mr. Silly over to a curtained off area. Mr. Arugula was there too. The whole town of Townsville turned out for the celebration. Everyone waited with giddy expectancy as the mayor, Mr. Chatterboom, took the stage. “People of Townsville, I would like to invite you to celebrate this very special day with me! My BIRTHDAY!” The townspeople coughed, one or two gave a feeble clap. The mayor continued, “It also happens to be the opening of the..um.. what’s it? Oh yes, the Flop House! Wait ! No, the ah… the Aquatic Center! To celebrate this momentous day our town baker has created a delectable dessert! I’m sure it will be just the thing to honor my …ahem, OUR special event today.” With a flourish Mr. Chatterboom waved his hand to the curtain. Suddenly it pulled back to reveal a giant slip and slide covered in ice cream with a chocolate fountain in a pool below.
The Mayor looked quite befuddled to behold the strange sight. The children, however, knew exactly what to do. They dove in face first! They were gobbling, slipping, smiling and squealing with glee!
Mr. Silly, Mr. Baklava and Mr. Arugula clapped each other no the back and shook hands as they looked on. It was a moment the people of Townsville would never forget!
I write a lot about animals but the truth is there is a lot to be said. I like most critters that are feathered or furred. I’ll admit it can be stinky business at times. It just kinda happens so you have to expect it. Animals are messy. Also expect the unexpected. They will do the craziest things and get into the strangest predicaments.
I love keeping animals. There are some obvious bonuses to the business. Our sweet bunnies are cute, furry, cuddly, etc. Our chickens give us eggs and have interesting personalities. Beyond that they are calming. They are dependent on you and that is both humbling and encouraging all at once. They don’t talk back so you can say whatever is on your mind and they just go about their day. They are always happy to see you- because you feed them. Aside from providing our daily meat (or at least a portion of our meat) our animals teach us so much more.
Responsibility. It’s a good word. It gets you up in the morning and gives you a daily opportunity to look past your own needs.
Work. Positively occupying our bodies is a must. What would we do otherwise? Answer: probably squander time on things that we shouldn’t.
Nurturing. It’s pretty amazing to see my drama queen daughter dutifully care for her bunnies as tenderly as a loving mother.
Science and Health. I love watching my teen son learn how to nurse a sick goat back to health and try to figure out how we should alter its diet for optimal growth. They just don’t teach this stuff in school.
I really can’t say enough good things about farm life. Have I convinced you yet?Photo credits on this pic go to my friend Carolyn. She captured the farm at sunset one evening when it was looking its rosy best. Love!
I have two girls. They both look like me – one more than the other. Every time I see a picture of my mother at a young age or one of my daughter’s most recent ones I think of the proverbial apple falling from the tree. It’s strange how uncanny it is.
I remember someone holding my daughter as an infant. She was facing me but across the room. With the distance the lines of time blurred and I saw not my baby, not myself, but my mother. Weird. Very deja vu.
I was looking through some of my junior high and high school photos not long ago. I was surprised to see myself now through an older me’s eyes. I was cute and funny and active. I wasn’t the ugly duckling that I remember feeling like.
Now I look to the future and I see my beautiful girl. I tell her nearly every day that she is beautiful. I tell her even more often that I love her.
When I see my mom again I will hug her tightly and tell her I love her. I am so thankful to be given the blessing of a wonderful mother and the opportunity to mother a lovely daughter. I just happened to get sandwiched in between! This is one time I don’t mind being caught up in the middle 🙂
I began blogging in an effort to ease myself out of my introverted tendencies. I don’t hibernate and I’m not a hermit but I do keep to myself. Pent up ideas, emotions, thoughts, energy and opinions that never get out can eat you up if you aren’t careful. I treasure the quiet times and the peaceful moments just as much as I do the happy gatherings and visiting friends but I was never truly myself. As time wore on and life continued it’s demands I found myself pushing back what I really wanted to say and do in favor of what I thought I should say and do. This is what I want to break.
I want to be authentically me. My thoughts, opinions and views. My hopes and dreams and goals. I know God has a plan for each of us and I want to reach my full potential. I wasn’t doing that. I was waiting for some little fairy to come and tap that wand on my shoulder. Sprinkle a little pixie dust maybe.
Isn’t it amazing how we are told that we can be anything we want to be but so few of us know what it is that we really want? Life has come full circle for me at this point. The ideals I held in my mind were really just mirages in the distance. They don’t ring true anymore. The true me was there underneath it all the whole time.
Truth is- I don’t want a career. I want to be a farmer. I want to dig the cold damp earth of spring and to pull weeds under the hot sun. I want to cultivate things of the earth so it can in turn feed my body and spirit. I want the open air and the seasons hot/cool/mild/freezing. I want to feel alive and grounded and to know that the animals around me are serving their purpose. I want to appreciate the bounty that is around me and thank the God above me for not only providing it but for allowing my body to be fully active in the work. This is the real me that I never knew.
I probably wouldn’t have discovered this fact if my kids had not become involved in 4H. The daily work with my son’s first goat set something stirring in me. I became almost more attached to that animal than he did. We both grieved on sale day. We will grieve every sale day.
I know that our farm is small and we are very inexperienced. We have a couple strikes against us there. There are even more in our favor. Strength and our family and the blessing of God upon our home. I am so thankful for the opportunity given to us!